I use Purrrfect Drums as a good all around drum library now. No real complaints, except the snare can be a little harsh, but it works well with many different genres...
I have a nice collection of loops, but they seem to be lacking in laid back, simple country stuff.
I need a good sidestick, and the snare with a low, muffled thud like sound. BFD looks nice, as does Scarbee's Imperial Drums, but both are expensive and a bit of an overkill for my needs. Midi files or loops with that laid back sound...side stick switching to snare on the chorus and hi hat switching to ride at times would be great.